You’ve said this and you’ve likely been posed this inquiry by a few of your female friends eventually. You’re wild about a certain person and he said he’d call. Hours, days and even seven days passes he still hasn’t gotten in touch. What’s the right thing to do? If you’re wondering about this now, don’t pick up the telephone. There’s a response to the question of whether or not you should call him and it’s an absolute, “no!”
You obviously are anxious to hear from him. Is there any good reason why you wouldn’t be when you two hit it off so well? You were a bit giddy when he said he’d call and you waited patiently the first day. As the days wore on and you realized that his call wasn’t coming as promised you started questioning whether you misread his signals. We’ve all been in this situation sooner or later. How we handle it will determine whether or not the relationship has a future or withers and dies.
If you call him up when he presently can’t seem to call you, you’re sending him an unmistakable message. That message is that you’re impatient and possibly a bit desperate. Men actually wait to call sometimes just to test us. They want to perceive how we’ll react when they’re not quick to get in contact. If your actions demonstrate that you’ve been waiting on the edge of your seat for your telephone to ring, it’s going to turn him off.
Since he hasn’t called when he said he will you have one clear option. You have to stop waiting. Go out with your friends. Have a great time. Not just will this help you to look past the fact that he hasn’t called but it likewise obviously demonstrates to him that you’re not the type of lady to put her life on hold waiting for a man.
When he goes to the realization that you’re not going to pursue him down to get him to talk to you, he’ll call you. You have to deal with that call in a certain manner. Since he’s taken so long to connect, treat him with a bit of distance. A great approach to accomplish this is to interact with him more as a friend than a romantic partner. He’ll immediately feel the adjustment in your attitude and it will help him see that he needs to step up his amusement if he plans to regain your attention.